2021.10.23 23:33 aunttjemima Would this be appropriate to send to my boss's boss?
For some background--my boss's boss is very approachable and encourages us to reach out to her, however I never have. I've worked there for going on 8 years and in January of this year I was given the chance of becoming the assistant manager. Still waiting on that.
Hi (boss's boss)
So I just wanted to clear some things up after (boss) mentioned I was brought up at the meeting on Monday. (Boss) just told me I could come if I wanted to but I didn't really feel the need since, to me, it would be like if I was trying to tell (owner) how to do his job, you know, just not my place to do so. I figured it was a you (manager, manager, boss) thing.
I know I see things a lot differently than most people and I guess maybe when (boss) says I'm the one at fault for not actually being the assistant I thought I was going to be, there could be truth to it. However, I thought I did everything I could to prove myself. I don't know what else I could have done and that's where my frustrations stem from. That's why I sent that email to (boss's assistant)-because I had redone the schedule 4 times that week, by myself, and felt like I was in an impossible situation. I had no idea how to check projected sales or anything. The only person who tried to help was (not a manager). And then that gets (owner's) attention and after years of him not even knowing who I am, I have a target on my back because after trying so hard to prove myself and work for a position I wanted here, it feels like I got nowhere. Now I feel like he is just waiting for one time for me to mess up to get rid of me before I ever have a chance to make it as a manager. I say that because, despite what everyone says, I have yet to be treated like one in this store.
Last week, we printed the little flyers to staple on bags, advertising for a porter. (Coworker) asked me if we hired a porter, what would I do? That's how confused I am and everyone else is here. I have no idea what my position is and haven't been sure on it for years. I've been given so many different excuses by (boss) this year: she needs to hire a porter and two openers in order for me to move up, then she says it was my fault for such a delay, then it's that she didn't think I wanted it, that she didn't think I would stay, then it's a staffing crisis and to wait my turn. When she made someone the porter, (person who doesn't work there anymore), she was our only strong morning person which meant I went back to running the kitchen by myself instead of receiving any management training or being able to run a shift. I'm just frustrated at being told that this is my fault, that I somehow sabotaged the job that I worked for. Maybe I didn't verbally express how much I wanted it but I did want it because it's something I know I could have done.
(Boss) tells me I don't involve myself, as a manager enough, when I draft the schedule, I do the truck order, I do half the weekly and monthly inventory, I find coverage when needed, I do position charts for every shift, I assign cleaning tasks, I fix criticals, I'm the one who prepared us for this last REV, I leave every shift looking how I would want to walk in to, I do everything I think I possibly can on top of being responsible for all of the porter work, the prep, the opening on most Mondays and Saturdays. I once did position charts for (manager and manager) and asked them for their feedback on where they needed coverage on their shifts so I could better understand where to move people on the schedule and got literally no response. My position charts get thrown out by (boss) so I stopped making them. I try to enforce a routine for changing sanitizer buckets and get told that it's unnecessary.
I know I'm naturally pretty abrasive but I promise you that I have done my part and continue to, despite it not feeling like a team effort. Just at this point it feels extremely degrading to be labeled the bad guy when I've worked this hard to help everyone out. I can't even get one day off without walking in to a mess but I'm there to cover everyone's vacations. Half the time, I don't even get paid to do the truck order because I'm doing it from home. Lots of people check out the minute they walk out the door while I'm always second guessing if I did enough, what I could have done differently, did I accidentally leave something for someone else to have to do, what mess will I walk in to tomorrow. Because so many daily things fall on me, I'm always afraid that I won't have time to get to all of it and if I don't, they don't get done and then I get behind and it's so hard to stay caught up on everything by myself. I don't want this to sound like I think I'm perfect. I'm an extremely anxious person and a paranoid idiot and I know a lot of the issues I have stem from me overthinking things to the point that I don't know what's real and what's not. But I feel like I'm 100% alone in everything here without support from anyone and this is completely overwhelming and I'm at a loss of how to dig myself out of this hole that I somehow ended up in just because I thought I had a chance at being a manager here.
I'm sorry for all of this and honestly if you just fired me, I wouldn't blame you and it would be a relief so then I don't have to keep losing sleep and any shred of a life outside of work and wondering what else I could have done differently here. (Boss) says you think I don't like you and that's not the case. There is so much built up frustration and it keeps piling on and I don't know what to do anymore. All I wanted was to be the assistant here but now I just want out of all of this.
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